How You Can Turn Him Into A HUSBAND MATERIAL

NB: These points can also be followed in a PLATONIC relationship,
not only in a LOVE relationship.

1. Keep Your Standards Genuinely High
Most ladies think that "giving up your standards for him is one of
those things love will should cost you...No! In fact, giving up your
standards shows that all ladies are the same and both of you (you
and him) are just the same meaning- you can't positively affect
him and fix his challenge. If your stand is no sex, don't lower it to
touchings...Keep it high- WE WILL HATE YOU AT FIRST BUT THEN
YOU WILL JUST BE ONE SHINING DIAMOND in the sky . If you're
doing it with some other guy, it won't be long, he'll find out.

2. Be Real With Him At All Times- Express Emotions Sometimes.
Don't be too firm and resolute. Be emotional occasionally. Trying
to impress him isn't the key. I had a lady then who shed tears just
because some folks she was leading were so recalcitrant- As she
wept, I loved her more- I can't explain it but I saw reality in her.
Being real with him means you have to always open up when
you're not comfortable with something but in a mature/ mild way.

3. Lead Him To Believe In The Supernatural.
Especially, if he doesn't believe in God...
The Supernatural is inexplicable using the human mind. There is
just something when a girl invites a guy to her Church. He may be
a whizz in natural life and work but he feels inept in this area...How
do you feel when you see him turning to Genesis when the pastor
told them to open to Hebrews?
He can't forget you...

4. Don't Put Money As Top Priority
Putting money as top priority makes you like the rest of 'em...If he
asks you to cook for him, try as much as possible to do so much
with just little- hard right? Try to...You may not have a second
chance to make a first impression. Some girls even give...You love
him, you see his potentials, isn't it wise to sow a seed or two?
Don't say, he'll leave you when things get better, not when put all
the 7 points to practice.

5. Be Committed In Checking Up On His Goals In Life.
Find out what matters most to him- his vision, goals, purpose etc.
Ask him about it and once in a while remind him... Insist that he
go look for a job, sends his CV to so and so... Every guy still have
baby tendencies- being like a mother to them energizes them.

6. Teach Him And Make Him Look Like The Teacher.
Mothers are life mentors. So are Real Ladies. Teaching a guy, you
need to be wise, especially when you're not trying to be selfish. I
do this a lot to girls. In teaching, ask questions, suggest...It's not
inferiority, it's courtesy, respect and regard.

7. If You Don't Agree With A Certain Behavior Of His, Create An
Avenue For Him To Correct It.
He didn't call you on your birthday. Call him and insist that he
calls you immediately. Don't take it too personal. He still loves you
nonetheless. By doing so, you're standing out as a Big Girl and not
a Spoilt Brat.
This thread does not promise you that he will change but ...You
will change...
Love changes people in amazing ways. You haven't experienced it
doesn't falsify these points... Maybe you have to put these to
practice thus enhancing your chances of even finding the guy who
won't be a tough but to crack
Source:NL