How Do I Prevent Break Up Situations In My Relationship? by Michael A
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1. Be The Bigger Person.
Stop being irresponsible. There is a misunderstanding? Be the first
to say, I'm sorry. It won't hurt a fly.
Do you know that by doing so he or she respects you more? Why?
You just did what she's been too proud to do. I practised this once
on a girl and the result was amazing and immediate. Try it today.
Don't try to defend your actions anymore.
2. If He Doesn't Call You, Call Him.
Two wrongs can't make a right.
Folks are always expecting the other to call first. If she doesn't call,
so you won't? I'm not referring to just casual and sexual
relationship. In a serious relationship, who calls most shows who
love most. Call him, you're not breaking "protocols", hun. If you
love him, show it. If he's a jerk or a kid, he'll freak out and run.
3. If All Of A Sudden He Stops Calling, Don't Push It. Cut Him Some
Slack
Sometimes, she has got her wedding all planned out in her mind
with him in it of course. She loves him dearly and that causes her
to expect soooo much. He stops calling and caring as before, she
starts suspecting. She aggravates over the phone. She yells at him,
"Why are you not picking my calls?". Probably, it's work stress and
family stuff. Give him a little space, meanwhile text him
occasionally. Patience is the word. Protect your Reputation,
Morals, Dignity and Chastity This is the period where some
impatient girls deem it necessary to "trap" him through sex or
pregnancy. How foolish! SMH!
4. Don't Plan To Retaliate
If she bursts your balloon by not laughing at your jokes, don't try
to retaliate. It is uncalled for. If she gives the attitude by not
replying your question, don't retaliate. It's hard? That's the way to
keep the relationship strong and going.
5. Forgive Ahead.
Decision not to sleep with grudges in your heart even while you're
single is one of the most important decisions you will ever make.
Nothing separates like an unforgiving attitude. You just refuse to
forgive him/ her. Perfect You! See where it has got you?
6. Being Hasty To Conclude
You hear something said against him and the next thing you're
calling and yelling. How immature! How would you feel if later you
discover it wasn't him. You feel like a... child.
7. Always Speak Up!
Not speaking may lead to regrets tomorrow. Misinformation
might have led to your breaking up... because you didn't speak!
This is where quiet and dull girls are not good enough. You should
know when to speak and when to be still joor!
You speak with Discretion, Respect and Maturity.
Discretion: Use wise words.
Respect: Use magic words.
Maturity: Know when to say what.
ASSIGNMENT: If you love him or her, Pick up the phone and call
her or him. Break the damn silence! Do something about the way
you disregard him or her, even in the public.
Go, Go make it work! ( Voice of Janet Jackson in Why Did I Get
Married?)
Have a nice day.g
1. Be The Bigger Person.
Stop being irresponsible. There is a misunderstanding? Be the first
to say, I'm sorry. It won't hurt a fly.
Do you know that by doing so he or she respects you more? Why?
You just did what she's been too proud to do. I practised this once
on a girl and the result was amazing and immediate. Try it today.
Don't try to defend your actions anymore.
2. If He Doesn't Call You, Call Him.
Two wrongs can't make a right.
Folks are always expecting the other to call first. If she doesn't call,
so you won't? I'm not referring to just casual and sexual
relationship. In a serious relationship, who calls most shows who
love most. Call him, you're not breaking "protocols", hun. If you
love him, show it. If he's a jerk or a kid, he'll freak out and run.
3. If All Of A Sudden He Stops Calling, Don't Push It. Cut Him Some
Slack
Sometimes, she has got her wedding all planned out in her mind
with him in it of course. She loves him dearly and that causes her
to expect soooo much. He stops calling and caring as before, she
starts suspecting. She aggravates over the phone. She yells at him,
"Why are you not picking my calls?". Probably, it's work stress and
family stuff. Give him a little space, meanwhile text him
occasionally. Patience is the word. Protect your Reputation,
Morals, Dignity and Chastity This is the period where some
impatient girls deem it necessary to "trap" him through sex or
pregnancy. How foolish! SMH!
4. Don't Plan To Retaliate
If she bursts your balloon by not laughing at your jokes, don't try
to retaliate. It is uncalled for. If she gives the attitude by not
replying your question, don't retaliate. It's hard? That's the way to
keep the relationship strong and going.
5. Forgive Ahead.
Decision not to sleep with grudges in your heart even while you're
single is one of the most important decisions you will ever make.
Nothing separates like an unforgiving attitude. You just refuse to
forgive him/ her. Perfect You! See where it has got you?
6. Being Hasty To Conclude
You hear something said against him and the next thing you're
calling and yelling. How immature! How would you feel if later you
discover it wasn't him. You feel like a... child.
7. Always Speak Up!
Not speaking may lead to regrets tomorrow. Misinformation
might have led to your breaking up... because you didn't speak!
This is where quiet and dull girls are not good enough. You should
know when to speak and when to be still joor!
You speak with Discretion, Respect and Maturity.
Discretion: Use wise words.
Respect: Use magic words.
Maturity: Know when to say what.
ASSIGNMENT: If you love him or her, Pick up the phone and call
her or him. Break the damn silence! Do something about the way
you disregard him or her, even in the public.
Go, Go make it work! ( Voice of Janet Jackson in Why Did I Get
Married?)
Have a nice day.g
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