Not all love is genuine; Date a Man who loves you more!
Hi beautiful ladies,
Date a man who loves you more. Meet him young,
at a time when you’re not old enough to realize how
precious he is. Fall in love carelessly. Start to think
he must be the one, begin building a life with him.
Become entangled with his family and him with
yours, believe he will be the father of your children
in later years. Date a man who loves you more
because he will love everything you hate about
yourself. The man who loves you more will rub your
feet when you’re tired and take your cousins out for
ice cream because he is simply that kind of man. He
will abandon his plans to come rub your back when
you’re sick without you ever having to ask. The man
who loves you more will allow you to grow as a
person without taking space. He will be patient,
kind; he will know when to apologize and when to
be quiet. He will never yell. He will laugh at your
jokes and find you beautiful, even at your worst.
The man who loves you more will love you entirely,
unconditionally; he will follow you anywhere and do
anything for you.
As you grow with the man who loves you more,
ignore the creeping sense of boredom. Ignore it
because it is selfish, it is unbecoming, and you know
you should be satisfied with this perfect man.
Ignore it because you watch the women around you,
your friends, your sisters, your co-workers, and you
know they all long for the man you have. Ignore the
melancholia and the longing you feel every time
you watch a couple fight with passion, with anger,
with fire. Count on your fingers the number of
fights you’ve had over the years, and consider
yourself lucky without really believing it. Ignore the
nostalgia you feel for moments that have never
existed. Ignore it because you know passion is
fleeting, passion is mercurial; passion is not
something you build a life on. Passion will not raise
your kids, it will not pay your mortgage. When
passion fades, you tell yourself, you are left with
nothing but regret. Ignore the slow leak of
emptiness filling your gut when you kiss him,
because it does not belong in your life. It does not
belong with this perfect man who loves you more.
He is dependable and with him, you know you will
lead a lifetime of contentment. You will travel with
him, you will push him towards his goals. You will
have wonderful memories and photo albums. You
will celebrate milestones with pride, you will grow
old holding his hand and raise balanced children
with him. When your children fall in love, you will
smile and hope they find someone who loves them
more, because it will guarantee them the satisfied
life you have led.
Do not date the other man because the other man
will never give you the stability you know you need.
Stay away from the other man because with him,
you are unreliable. The other man will never be
there for you with the same dependability you have
come to expect. He will challenge you and push you
to question everything you think you know about
yourself. The other man will love you, he will love
you in ways that make you abandon every certainty
you have ever had, but he will not help you keep
your balance. Just when you think you have figured
that man out, he will disorient you, you will be
winded, you will not be able to breathe. Date the
man who loves you more because the other man
will never need you. He will miss you when you’re
gone, he will secretly be broken, but he will go on
without you because he does not depend on
anyone. This man is treacherous, you cannot trust
yourself with him.
When things are good with this man, you will be
euphoric. You will be the best version of yourself.
You will look in the mirror and find you are
beautiful. You will be the luckiest woman in the
world, and you will believe it. You will tell him you
love him and the words will explode out of your
heart because it will be the first time you have ever
encountered such irrevocable truth. He will say it
back and mean it, and you will feel like you can
never be close enough to him. You will lose yourself
in him, and he will lose himself in you. Stay away
from this man because your happiness will be
fleeting. When things are bad with him, he will fight
back. He will not be patient, he will not soothe you.
The other man will be infuriating. He will be selfish,
careless with his words and at times even cruel. He
will try to inflict as much pain on you as he himself
is feeling. He will not apologize and he will push you
to your limits. With this man, you can expect the
dizzying agony of passion, the blurred oblivion of
apathy, the delicious comfort of despair, the
addictive misery of loneliness. You will tell yourself
that it is better to have loved and lost than to have
never loved at all, but in that moment of utter
hopelessness, you will not believe it with absolute
conviction.
Date a man who loves you more because while he
can never be quite enough, the other man will
always be too much. The other man will leave you
thirsty for more, parched for him, panicked like a
drunk who has finished his last bottle. Date that
man who loves you more, fall for him in a slow and
steady way, build a foundation with him and
consider, truly consider, how lucky you are to have
found him. Do all this, because with the other man,
you will never know anything but a frenzied hunger
and all-encompassing madness. With that man you
will burn bright and fast, and you will be invincible
until you are not. Find the man who loves you more
and keep him because the worth of happiness
cannot be measured in days and months and years,
and those fleeting few memories of pure,
unadulterated bliss will never measure up to the
lifetime of contentment you will have with the man
who loves you more. Tell yourself this over and
over, let it become your mantra, and condition
yourself to believe it. Forget the other man, or at
least try to, ignore the smells, the sounds and the
things that remind you of him, ignore the way he
made you feel, because you are better off apart.
Together you make the world explode, but you
cannot survive in it after. Date the man who loves
you more, choose him and never let him go,
because you are wise enough to know that stories of
true love never have a happy ending, and with this
man at least you will die knowing someone loved
you more.
Date a man who loves you more. Meet him young,
at a time when you’re not old enough to realize how
precious he is. Fall in love carelessly. Start to think
he must be the one, begin building a life with him.
Become entangled with his family and him with
yours, believe he will be the father of your children
in later years. Date a man who loves you more
because he will love everything you hate about
yourself. The man who loves you more will rub your
feet when you’re tired and take your cousins out for
ice cream because he is simply that kind of man. He
will abandon his plans to come rub your back when
you’re sick without you ever having to ask. The man
who loves you more will allow you to grow as a
person without taking space. He will be patient,
kind; he will know when to apologize and when to
be quiet. He will never yell. He will laugh at your
jokes and find you beautiful, even at your worst.
The man who loves you more will love you entirely,
unconditionally; he will follow you anywhere and do
anything for you.
As you grow with the man who loves you more,
ignore the creeping sense of boredom. Ignore it
because it is selfish, it is unbecoming, and you know
you should be satisfied with this perfect man.
Ignore it because you watch the women around you,
your friends, your sisters, your co-workers, and you
know they all long for the man you have. Ignore the
melancholia and the longing you feel every time
you watch a couple fight with passion, with anger,
with fire. Count on your fingers the number of
fights you’ve had over the years, and consider
yourself lucky without really believing it. Ignore the
nostalgia you feel for moments that have never
existed. Ignore it because you know passion is
fleeting, passion is mercurial; passion is not
something you build a life on. Passion will not raise
your kids, it will not pay your mortgage. When
passion fades, you tell yourself, you are left with
nothing but regret. Ignore the slow leak of
emptiness filling your gut when you kiss him,
because it does not belong in your life. It does not
belong with this perfect man who loves you more.
He is dependable and with him, you know you will
lead a lifetime of contentment. You will travel with
him, you will push him towards his goals. You will
have wonderful memories and photo albums. You
will celebrate milestones with pride, you will grow
old holding his hand and raise balanced children
with him. When your children fall in love, you will
smile and hope they find someone who loves them
more, because it will guarantee them the satisfied
life you have led.
Do not date the other man because the other man
will never give you the stability you know you need.
Stay away from the other man because with him,
you are unreliable. The other man will never be
there for you with the same dependability you have
come to expect. He will challenge you and push you
to question everything you think you know about
yourself. The other man will love you, he will love
you in ways that make you abandon every certainty
you have ever had, but he will not help you keep
your balance. Just when you think you have figured
that man out, he will disorient you, you will be
winded, you will not be able to breathe. Date the
man who loves you more because the other man
will never need you. He will miss you when you’re
gone, he will secretly be broken, but he will go on
without you because he does not depend on
anyone. This man is treacherous, you cannot trust
yourself with him.
When things are good with this man, you will be
euphoric. You will be the best version of yourself.
You will look in the mirror and find you are
beautiful. You will be the luckiest woman in the
world, and you will believe it. You will tell him you
love him and the words will explode out of your
heart because it will be the first time you have ever
encountered such irrevocable truth. He will say it
back and mean it, and you will feel like you can
never be close enough to him. You will lose yourself
in him, and he will lose himself in you. Stay away
from this man because your happiness will be
fleeting. When things are bad with him, he will fight
back. He will not be patient, he will not soothe you.
The other man will be infuriating. He will be selfish,
careless with his words and at times even cruel. He
will try to inflict as much pain on you as he himself
is feeling. He will not apologize and he will push you
to your limits. With this man, you can expect the
dizzying agony of passion, the blurred oblivion of
apathy, the delicious comfort of despair, the
addictive misery of loneliness. You will tell yourself
that it is better to have loved and lost than to have
never loved at all, but in that moment of utter
hopelessness, you will not believe it with absolute
conviction.
Date a man who loves you more because while he
can never be quite enough, the other man will
always be too much. The other man will leave you
thirsty for more, parched for him, panicked like a
drunk who has finished his last bottle. Date that
man who loves you more, fall for him in a slow and
steady way, build a foundation with him and
consider, truly consider, how lucky you are to have
found him. Do all this, because with the other man,
you will never know anything but a frenzied hunger
and all-encompassing madness. With that man you
will burn bright and fast, and you will be invincible
until you are not. Find the man who loves you more
and keep him because the worth of happiness
cannot be measured in days and months and years,
and those fleeting few memories of pure,
unadulterated bliss will never measure up to the
lifetime of contentment you will have with the man
who loves you more. Tell yourself this over and
over, let it become your mantra, and condition
yourself to believe it. Forget the other man, or at
least try to, ignore the smells, the sounds and the
things that remind you of him, ignore the way he
made you feel, because you are better off apart.
Together you make the world explode, but you
cannot survive in it after. Date the man who loves
you more, choose him and never let him go,
because you are wise enough to know that stories of
true love never have a happy ending, and with this
man at least you will die knowing someone loved
you more.
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