THE 3 OBSTACLES
Been through with some books and came about some 3obstacles amid our goals and dream,even when we have the knowledge.we have to conquer this things
These are the obstacles and the
ways to overcome them are:
1. YOUR FEARS:
By far the biggest obstacle to taking action is your fears. These may be fears that you are aware of but quite often it is fears that you may not even be consciously aware of. For example, like many people you might like to start a business and have a lot of business
ideas in this regard, but maybe you find yourself unable to take the next step. Something holds you back. Until you recognize and deal with that issue you may find yourself stuck. I know of a person that had such a problem. We grew up together. She was very brilliant but in our third year, her academic performance started to dwindle. I was really baffled at first because this was the same girl I knew right from our cradle years and who I could bet on her intellectual prowess. During one coaching session for her, she discovered what was holding her back. You see, this lady’s parents had divorced some months back. After the divorce, she lived with her mother who was not wealthy. Her father, on the other hand, was wealthy and would get her expensive gifts and generally provide for her materially and he had even promised to ensure she would marry a very wealthy man as well---
Imagine! Well, through my coaching and counseling sessions, she
discovered that she was actually sabotaging her chances of academic success because to her, being wealthy meant being like her Dad and she felt that there was no need studying hard again since she felt she had all her 'paths painted in Gold'. It is important to be clear on what your fears are. They are by
far the biggest obstacle that you have to deal with in order to move ahead and succeed. The example I have given also illustrates that knowing the origins of our fears is very important in dealing
with them. You may know what your fears are, but may not be clear on the
reason you feel that way. The answer usually lies in the origin of the fear. Coaching and counseling can help you dig deeper and understand yourself better with respect to your fears.
2. FEELING POWERLESS
The second obstacle is Powerlessness. Powerlessness occurs when you are living in a state of low power. In this state you will find that you generally feel less energetic, blame yourself or others are
judgmental of self and others and at times even angry.
The best way I would describe this state is the feeling of having a
weight on your shoulder, or a feeling of heaviness in your chest or heart, particularly when you think about your future and your plans. It can be such a drag and every step can take so much
effort. Part of the answer to dropping this weight lies in learning to let go
of the negative things in your life. Once you do, you are able to move ahead to a state of higher power. When you are in a state of higher power you let go of blame, judgment, anger and negativity.
You drop that weight from off your shoulders or lose those bands that are constricting your heart and mind.
Then you begin to feel refreshed and light. It becomes easier to move ahead without the clutter of negativity. In a state of higher power wisdom and intuition are more accessible to you. The
process of letting go of such judgments, blame and negativity need not be a lengthy or difficult one. It just needs to be focused and deliberate. Again, coaching can be very useful in this area. Another thing that can help you to get to a state of higher power is your spirituality. We often neglect prayer and reading God’s Word, but they are the easiest and cheapest means of getting rid of negativity, blame and judgment of self and others. Meditate on God’s word and pray earnestly. The Bible says in the book of James chapter 5:16 that “effectual, fervent prayer of a righteous
man availeth much.” It will avail you the power you need and give
you the courage to move forward without
fear and heaviness.
3. LACK OF FOCUS
Once you have recognized and let go of your fears and are in a state of higher power, you need to add Focus in order to move from knowledge to action. By focus, I mean your vision in life. What is it that you want to do with your life? Part of the reason that knowledge you have is not being put to use may be that there is nothing for you to focus it on. There is
nothing pulling you in a certain direction. So today if I tell you about investing in Food business like setting up a bakery, you will be really excited about it and tomorrow if I tell you about importation business or teaching you will be really excited about that too. The result is that you be pulled in many directions and
end up remaining stationary despite your unfocused efforts. Acting consistently and towards the right purpose is important. Work out your vision. Work out your purpose. Be clear on what you want in life.
Once you do these things, it becomes easy to say NO to things that
will not add value to you. It becomes easier to say NO to distractions and you will then know what knowledge you need to acquire and concentrate on in order to reach your destination”
Love you so much because I care for you see you at the top..
Get inspired,or you get expire
These are the obstacles and the
ways to overcome them are:
1. YOUR FEARS:
By far the biggest obstacle to taking action is your fears. These may be fears that you are aware of but quite often it is fears that you may not even be consciously aware of. For example, like many people you might like to start a business and have a lot of business
ideas in this regard, but maybe you find yourself unable to take the next step. Something holds you back. Until you recognize and deal with that issue you may find yourself stuck. I know of a person that had such a problem. We grew up together. She was very brilliant but in our third year, her academic performance started to dwindle. I was really baffled at first because this was the same girl I knew right from our cradle years and who I could bet on her intellectual prowess. During one coaching session for her, she discovered what was holding her back. You see, this lady’s parents had divorced some months back. After the divorce, she lived with her mother who was not wealthy. Her father, on the other hand, was wealthy and would get her expensive gifts and generally provide for her materially and he had even promised to ensure she would marry a very wealthy man as well---
Imagine! Well, through my coaching and counseling sessions, she
discovered that she was actually sabotaging her chances of academic success because to her, being wealthy meant being like her Dad and she felt that there was no need studying hard again since she felt she had all her 'paths painted in Gold'. It is important to be clear on what your fears are. They are by
far the biggest obstacle that you have to deal with in order to move ahead and succeed. The example I have given also illustrates that knowing the origins of our fears is very important in dealing
with them. You may know what your fears are, but may not be clear on the
reason you feel that way. The answer usually lies in the origin of the fear. Coaching and counseling can help you dig deeper and understand yourself better with respect to your fears.
2. FEELING POWERLESS
The second obstacle is Powerlessness. Powerlessness occurs when you are living in a state of low power. In this state you will find that you generally feel less energetic, blame yourself or others are
judgmental of self and others and at times even angry.
The best way I would describe this state is the feeling of having a
weight on your shoulder, or a feeling of heaviness in your chest or heart, particularly when you think about your future and your plans. It can be such a drag and every step can take so much
effort. Part of the answer to dropping this weight lies in learning to let go
of the negative things in your life. Once you do, you are able to move ahead to a state of higher power. When you are in a state of higher power you let go of blame, judgment, anger and negativity.
You drop that weight from off your shoulders or lose those bands that are constricting your heart and mind.
Then you begin to feel refreshed and light. It becomes easier to move ahead without the clutter of negativity. In a state of higher power wisdom and intuition are more accessible to you. The
process of letting go of such judgments, blame and negativity need not be a lengthy or difficult one. It just needs to be focused and deliberate. Again, coaching can be very useful in this area. Another thing that can help you to get to a state of higher power is your spirituality. We often neglect prayer and reading God’s Word, but they are the easiest and cheapest means of getting rid of negativity, blame and judgment of self and others. Meditate on God’s word and pray earnestly. The Bible says in the book of James chapter 5:16 that “effectual, fervent prayer of a righteous
man availeth much.” It will avail you the power you need and give
you the courage to move forward without
fear and heaviness.
3. LACK OF FOCUS
Once you have recognized and let go of your fears and are in a state of higher power, you need to add Focus in order to move from knowledge to action. By focus, I mean your vision in life. What is it that you want to do with your life? Part of the reason that knowledge you have is not being put to use may be that there is nothing for you to focus it on. There is
nothing pulling you in a certain direction. So today if I tell you about investing in Food business like setting up a bakery, you will be really excited about it and tomorrow if I tell you about importation business or teaching you will be really excited about that too. The result is that you be pulled in many directions and
end up remaining stationary despite your unfocused efforts. Acting consistently and towards the right purpose is important. Work out your vision. Work out your purpose. Be clear on what you want in life.
Once you do these things, it becomes easy to say NO to things that
will not add value to you. It becomes easier to say NO to distractions and you will then know what knowledge you need to acquire and concentrate on in order to reach your destination”
Love you so much because I care for you see you at the top..
Get inspired,or you get expire
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