Why Many Guys Don’t Like You

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12 Reasons Why Many Guys Don’t like you


This goes to all the ladies out there. Have
you ever taken time to think of the
reasons why that guy dumped you?
Why he doesn't like you? Why that guy
dimmed his love for you? Why your guy
changed all over a sudden? Why guys don't
fall for you? Why you are remaining single
year to year?
1. You Lie Too Much - Guys aren't stupid.
They can tell when they're being lied too.
Don't try to hide who you are because you
think a guy won't like the real you. You can't
fool somebody forever and once the truth
comes out he'll never trust you again. So be
yourself to some guys who date you.
2. You Don't Appreciate The Little Things
He Does For You - Some guys are horrible
with expressing their feelings, but they try to
in their own little ways. Sometimes it's
something small like picking up a cupcake
because they know you'll like it. Lots of times
an act like this goes unnoticed, If a guy is
trying to show you he cares and you don't
see it he'll think you don't care or you don't
love him. Appreciate his efforts please.
3. You Text & Make Calls Too Much - Guys
like to feel important. If you're on your phone
the whole time during dinner they'll feel like
you don't care about them. The solution is to
turn your phone off so you can give all your
attention to him. Seriously, nothing is so
important to having to always be texting.
Think about it and stop it.
NOTE: Some of these reasons are vice-versa.
Some of the guys out there also do this. They
should also borrow a leaf from these tips.
4. You're a Party Animal - Guys like to have
fun, but they also like to chill out. If you're
going out to bars and clubbing like thrice a
week, soon your guy will get tired of it. First
of all it's not developmental at all and it's
wastage of time if overdone. So a guy will hate
and dump you for that. If you want to be in
a committed relationship you have to give up
the crazy nights out. I am not saying your
never party,but do it once in a while.
5. Showing That You Know Everything -
Women are smart; we all know this, but
some women think they know everything.
Nobody likes a know-it-all. When you're
constantly trying to prove to a guy that he's
wrong it'll eat away at him. Even if you know
you're right about something let it slide. I
It's okay to let someone else have the glory.
6. Do Not Be Afraid To Eat - Here's a fact
about this world: guys like to eat food. If you
don't eat while he is, you'll make them feel
awkward. You don't need to eat a
cheeseburger and fries every day, but do more
than have a side salad for dinner.
7. You Are Not Independent Enough -
If whenever life gets rough you run to your
parents for help, it'll turn a guy off. It's good
to have a support system, but if you're calling
your mom because you broke a nail, because
your guy never paid all the necessary bills, if
he left insufficient money for l launch at
home, if he came back late, If he never ate the
food you cooked… it shows you won't be able
to handle the bigger problems when they come.
8. You Don't Work But You Want To
Spend Like a Billionaire - If you want to shop
all day long, you better have your own money
to do it. Guys don't like having to sweat all
day. Many ladies sometimes like competing,
they like buying things that they won't use
simply because they don't suit their standards.
They like to poses it and full up
their wardrobe simply because she saw her
closest female friend with it. Guys dislike this;
they will dump you because of being a big
spender.
9. You Need To Change Him - Guys like who
they are. They are how they are for a reason,
basically for a living. If he's a horrible
dresser you can buy him a new shirt, but don't
force anything on him. If he likes wearing pair
of Jeans, T-shirts and sneaks, that is his
style… Don't try to change him to start
putting on suits that he is not used to. Just
love him the way he is. If you aren't happy
with who he is, find somebody else that makes
you happy. But remember some on can be so
stylish but when he has no true love for you at
heart.
10. You Never Decide Where To Eat
Dinner From - If you're going out to dinner
just make a choice and stick with it. Guys
don't like making a decision and then hanging it
and then changing it again. If you want to go to
more than one place, there's always next
weekend.
11. You Act Like The World Is Ending -
There's nothing worse for a guy than when a
girl acts like the world is ending because her
favourite salad
was out of stock when she went
grocery shopping. Even if it means a lot to you
try to let it go. Guys just blow things off and
hope you will to.
12. Being So Friendly To His Friends - Guys
don't make new friends often. The friends
they have are for life. When you try to step in
between a guy and his buddies all you're doing
is creating a barrier between the two of you.
A guy may dump you because of your being so
close to his friends. He will feel insecure; he
will get jealous and starts losing the trust
hence leading to dumping you and even
hating his friends for life. Don't be into his
friends so much; don't communicate with them
behind his back unless he is okay with it. Talk
to them mostly when he is around with you.



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