WHEN YOU HAVE THE HALF CHANCE
1. Gauge The Situation
You finally got her number, but was she
totally enthusiastic while giving it? Or was
she being cordial? Or did she do that to
simply save your face at the party? Get to
understand her thought process and act
accordingly. If she was enthusiastic, there’s
no harm in messaging the next day with a
greeting! Even if she wasn’t, give her some
breathing space or she will find you too
clingy. Keep etiquette in mind and casually
tell her you would be messaging the next
day.
2. Message In Proportion
You glance at your phone and see a text
from her. What do you do? Send half a
dozen messages about what you’re doing to
what you’re eating to what you’re feeling?
No. Just no. Curb that enthusiasm and go
easy on her or you’ll make her look like a
deer caught in headlights. Also, don’t
message her after every couple of hours.
You might have some free time but that
doesn’t mean she does too. Balance it out
and keep it healthy. Overwhelming can be
quite dangerous at times.
3. Don’t Interrogate
You’re head over heels for this lass and you
want to know everything about her. That
doesn’t mean you should adorn the hat of a
cop and barrage her with questions! Go easy
with the questions, space them out a bit.
Usually, people tend to ask a question even
before the previous one is perfectly
answered. Share things with her if they are
similar. Give a bit of yourself while you are
taking some a bit of her. Another bit of
advice, keep the generic questions aside.
Ask her something about her recent hobby,
and add your two bits about it if you do
have. It’s always a delight to connect over a
common point.
4. Treat Her Like A Human
You might be visioning her as a Greek
Goddess draped in golden silk coming your
way, but she too is human, so do remember
to treat her like one while you’re placing
her on a pedestal. She might say something
which was meant to be funny but didn’t
come off that way; the typical guy might
laugh just to please her. You don’t. Keep it
real and be true. Women dig honest men
than the ones who’re hell-bent on flattering
them constantly.
5. Keep It Interesting
You have a crush on her? There’s a
possibility that there are a dozen other
guys couching for her as well. So your
concern is to grab her attention and hold on
to it with your life. Don’t bother with
meaningless questions and unnecessary
descriptions about your day. If she loves
reading, share few insightful quotes with
her. Understand her hobbies and habits and
shape your words around those. Keep the
conversations hilarious and enticing. Women
always love a man with a funny bone.
Above and beyond everything, lose your
inhibitions, grow a pair, and go talk to the
one you’ve been eyeing for so long. You
wouldn’t know if it works unless you try
You finally got her number, but was she
totally enthusiastic while giving it? Or was
she being cordial? Or did she do that to
simply save your face at the party? Get to
understand her thought process and act
accordingly. If she was enthusiastic, there’s
no harm in messaging the next day with a
greeting! Even if she wasn’t, give her some
breathing space or she will find you too
clingy. Keep etiquette in mind and casually
tell her you would be messaging the next
day.
2. Message In Proportion
You glance at your phone and see a text
from her. What do you do? Send half a
dozen messages about what you’re doing to
what you’re eating to what you’re feeling?
No. Just no. Curb that enthusiasm and go
easy on her or you’ll make her look like a
deer caught in headlights. Also, don’t
message her after every couple of hours.
You might have some free time but that
doesn’t mean she does too. Balance it out
and keep it healthy. Overwhelming can be
quite dangerous at times.
3. Don’t Interrogate
You’re head over heels for this lass and you
want to know everything about her. That
doesn’t mean you should adorn the hat of a
cop and barrage her with questions! Go easy
with the questions, space them out a bit.
Usually, people tend to ask a question even
before the previous one is perfectly
answered. Share things with her if they are
similar. Give a bit of yourself while you are
taking some a bit of her. Another bit of
advice, keep the generic questions aside.
Ask her something about her recent hobby,
and add your two bits about it if you do
have. It’s always a delight to connect over a
common point.
4. Treat Her Like A Human
You might be visioning her as a Greek
Goddess draped in golden silk coming your
way, but she too is human, so do remember
to treat her like one while you’re placing
her on a pedestal. She might say something
which was meant to be funny but didn’t
come off that way; the typical guy might
laugh just to please her. You don’t. Keep it
real and be true. Women dig honest men
than the ones who’re hell-bent on flattering
them constantly.
5. Keep It Interesting
You have a crush on her? There’s a
possibility that there are a dozen other
guys couching for her as well. So your
concern is to grab her attention and hold on
to it with your life. Don’t bother with
meaningless questions and unnecessary
descriptions about your day. If she loves
reading, share few insightful quotes with
her. Understand her hobbies and habits and
shape your words around those. Keep the
conversations hilarious and enticing. Women
always love a man with a funny bone.
Above and beyond everything, lose your
inhibitions, grow a pair, and go talk to the
one you’ve been eyeing for so long. You
wouldn’t know if it works unless you try
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